I would do a deal with you Andy714, or PadresFan86, no problem. I think most people are reasonable, but it's easy to fall in the trap and get angry about the small things. And once they voice their anger its a hell of a hard thing to later admit you might have been unreasonable. But every one of us has made that mistake. No reason to leave the forum, in my opinion.
I believe 75%+ of the negative feedbacks start with something like what happened here, and folks can be pretty darn stubborn in their ways... being human is great, isn't it!