Originally Posted by zep
Sadly, the guy may have passed away or had some type of accident. Collectors don't just forget big money items are coming.
Maybe check news reports from his area between the date he purchased it and a few weeks after.
Has he left feedback for anyone or bid on anything in the last month?
The customer service person at ebay actually spoke with the guy on Monday. He told the folks at ebay he would be responding to my messages and that he would be happy to pay for me to ship it again. He hasn't followed through on any of it. There is something very strange going on. He bought several gold Heywards, and I talked to another guy that sold one to him. The other seller said the cards went through just fine. I will just keep sending him messages.
I don't like endless haggling, if I make an offer I think is fair and you ask for more, don't be surprised when I walk away.