Go under "my shipments" and you should see a transaction number under shipment history. That's a good place to start to see if your order went through.
But yeah it usually takes like 6-9 business days for me now. Could be up to two weeks depending.
50% auto accept on my COMC, which is called AllOffersAccepted.
<--Link to the left, with some cheap low /'d stuff!
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