I think as a buyer you have the responsibility to pay quickly and fully and to provide the correct shipping location. You also should have clear communication with the buyer if things aren't going smoothly. Waiting that long puts you in a hole. Good luck getting this figured out.
Still waiting on an Odell/Landry dual auto from Topps
Maybe you can take some time to learn about the rules of football since your judgement won't be clouded by your favorite team