I think as a buyer you have the responsibility to pay quickly and fully and to provide the correct shipping location. You also should have clear communication with the buyer if things aren't going smoothly. Waiting that long puts you in a hole. Good luck getting this figured out.
Itís not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.
Blowout: where so much crap is made up I keep wondering when King Friday will start to post