I still don't get people. As a mid volume seller, whenever someone asks me about getting a deal on shipping or that I charge too much ($2.25 flat to US, $4.50 to Canada, $5.50 international and .55 cents), I usually brace for the hit on the DSR. IF you dont like the terms, don't bid. I don't get why it is so difficult.
My eBay store is my "bucket".