Just an observation, Shiloh, IL and O'Fallon, IL are near Scott Air Force Base, IL. Getting transferred to Hong Kong? I think you have to fly through HK in order to get some of the Air Force bases in the Far East. If this guy is military, he's easily contactable and prosecutable under the Uniform Code of Military Justice. If anyone has a name, I might be able to verify if he's military via the military's Global Address Listing (GAL). Talk about screwing your military career if he is. All kinds of things he could be tried for.
Throat punching may be in order.