This is getting out of I would check and see if anyone of them have being on the boards or making deals. If the answer is yes, I would pm them one more time and let them know you will be leaving a negative.
If family is in town, then you shouldnt be on here. If they are in town and if you can post then you respond to pms. And if you have time to do all of that then you have time to ship.
My Collecting - Alessio Sakara