I have 3 boys. All of them have done something i feel is worse then pack searching. Kids do dumb ish. Especially teenage boys. What you do as a father when they do something dumb is sit them down,explain to them why its wrong,tell them how they could have handled the situation better and HOPE they learn from it. Its not rocket science and its obvious you dont have kids,or at least kids old enough to do something stupid.
To answer you question directly. I would explain to him why its wrong to pack search. Pretty simple really.
Would i feel ashamed,hurt,saddened,upset,discouraged or feel as if my son wasnt going to end up a productive member of society? Not in the least. Like i said above..that would be moronic.
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