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zonacats8 10-07-2012 01:53 AM

Looking for some levelheaded advice
 
as I'm just not thinking straight right now because I'm just furious at the moment.

So I make a paypal/card trade on here recently with cards in excess of $50 in value, when making the trade it was known to the other party that I was planning on then selling the card I was receiving in the deal. So maybe I should have asked if there was anything wrong with the card before making the deal, but the person had more than enough feedback that I guess I just assumed they would have disclosed it because that's what I do in any trade/sale.

So I get my end of the trade in the mail today, and when signing the card, the player obviously ran off the edge with the pen and made two pen marks on the edge of the card. Now this in my opinion would really hurt the value of the card, probably taking it down at least 25% as many people in this hobby are very picky about card condition obviously.

I message the member telling them that I was not happy, as there is no way this shouldn't have been disclosed from the start, especially knowing that I was going to be trying and selling the card. He responds saying he didn't realize the mark was there or that he had forgotten about it, and didn't see it when packing it up, which I just have a hard time believing as I noticed it before even taking it out of the team bag.

He says he'll send my cards back to me on Monday and I should send his back and refund the money, which is where the problem comes in. I don't have it anymore, the reason I wanted the paypal out of the deal was because I wanted to bid on some PC items, items that I would have passed on if I didn't have the money.

So to me, I'm not happy with the thought of having to try and sell some of my other cards at the moment just so that we can go back on this deal.

Now I'm not going to name the member, which is why I covered the card with a filler so nobody could see it in case they knew who had it before. But as you can see, it's not just some little dot on there, which is why I think it severely hurts it's value as it would probably kill any grading on the edges if not also taking points off on the auto at the same time because of it.

So as I said in my title, I'd like some level headed advice on this issue as I'm not at all in a clear state of mind at the moment.

Sorry the pic is kinda blurry, didn't want to focus real well with it being so close to the card

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GatorBoyInTN 10-07-2012 01:57 AM

[QUOTE=zonacats8;3433885]as I'm just not thinking straight right now because I'm just furious at the moment.

So I make a paypal/card trade on here recently with cards in excess of $50 in value, when making the trade it was known to the other party that I was planning on then selling the card I was receiving in the deal. So maybe I should have asked if there was anything wrong with the card before making the deal, but the person had more than enough feedback that I guess I just assumed they would have disclosed it because that's what I do in any trade/sale.

So I get my end of the trade in the mail today, and when signing the card, the player obviously ran off the edge with the pen and made two pen marks on the edge of the card. Now this in my opinion would really hurt the value of the card, probably taking it down at least 25% as many people in this hobby are very picky about card condition obviously.

I message the member telling them that I was not happy, as there is no way this shouldn't have been disclosed from the start, especially knowing that I was going to be trying and selling the card. He responds saying he didn't realize the mark was there or that he had forgotten about it, and didn't see it when packing it up, which I just have a hard time believing as I noticed it before even taking it out of the team bag.

He says he'll send my cards back to me on Monday and I should send his back and refund the money, which is where the problem comes in. I don't have it anymore, the reason I wanted the paypal out of the deal was because I wanted to bid on some PC items, items that I would have passed on if I didn't have the money.

So to me, I'm not happy with the thought of having to try and sell some of my other cards at the moment just so that we can go back on this deal.

Now I'm not going to name the member, which is why I covered the card with a filler so nobody could see it in case they knew who had it before. But as you can see, it's not just some little dot on there, which is why I think it severely hurts it's value as it would probably kill any grading on the edges if not also taking points off on the auto at the same time because of it.

So as I said in my title, I'd like some level headed advice on this issue as I'm not at all in a clear state of mind at the moment.

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I don't like you and you don't like me, and we both know it.

However, this is a tough situation. Did the member in question not provide scans of the card? If he didn't, did you ever stop and ask about the condition of the card? I mean I agree with you that the information should be disclosed, but it's also partially your responsibility to inquire about the condition of the card and asked to be provided a scan. As far as the money goes, this put you in a tough spot. Maybe the member will allow you to pay him/her back at a later date? Good luck with this.

DCN12586 10-07-2012 01:58 AM

I know this may seem like a dumb question, but did you see a scan of the card prior to making the trade?

Clarka3 10-07-2012 01:59 AM

that's rough.

kyle, if you want to trade-sell it to me, i'm not uber picky about that. i'll ship you some vons in return if you'd like to move it and still have some product to sell. whittling down my collection anyhow.


and for everybody asking about seeing the scans, how often do you see the side of a card on a scan? just wanted to head that one off at the pass for the OP.

GatorBoyInTN 10-07-2012 02:02 AM

[QUOTE=Clarka3;3433904]that's rough.

kyle, if you want to trade-sell it to me, i'm not uber picky about that. i'll ship you some vons in return if you'd like to move it and still have some product to sell. whittling down my collection anyhow.


and for everybody asking about seeing the scans, how often do you see the side of a card on a scan? just wanted to head that one off at the pass for the OP.[/QUOTE]

You see a front scan of the card and you can't notice that the ink runs to the corner?

Chaz 10-07-2012 02:03 AM

That makes the card a 1/1 auto, i mean he tried to sign the side of the card too that's awesome. $999.99 on eBay my friend. Seriously I would just sell it and let the person know of the pen mark on the side

zonacats8 10-07-2012 02:06 AM

[QUOTE=GatorBoyInTN;3433900][B]I don't like you and you don't like me, and we both know it. [/B]

However, this is a tough situation. Did the member in question not provide scans of the card? If he didn't, did you ever stop and ask about the condition of the card? I mean I agree with you that the information should be disclosed, but it's also partially your responsibility to inquire about the condition of the card and asked to be provided a scan. As far as the money goes, this put you in a tough spot. Maybe the member will allow you to pay him/her back at a later date? Good luck with this.[/QUOTE]

It's funny that you say that because I was about to send you a PM starting it off with that sentence and then asking for your opinion because I felt you'd be the best person to give me advice as you clearly wouldn't be on my side from the start, hahaha, so thanks for jumping in here!

But to answer your questions, no I didn't ask on the condition, but at the same time, he told me in a PM just now that he either didn't know about the mark, or had forgotten about it, so I'm assuming I'd have gotten an answer saying it was fine.

I did see a scan of it, but it was a straight on shot, couldn't see the edge like that, never would have assumed it would have had that mark as I've seen countless of auto's run off the card without any sort of mark on the edge

Really the crux of the issue is the money, as if it had been a straight up trade it would be easy and no problem to just go back on it and send the cards back.

It's that I wanted the paypal out of the deal to pick up some PC cards that I would have passed on if I didn't have the money. So for me to have to then sell off cards I have now to go back on this deal, even if I pay it in the future, has me pretty upset and why this is such an issue for me.

zonacats8 10-07-2012 02:09 AM

[QUOTE=zonacats8;3433919]But to answer your questions, no I didn't ask on the condition, but at the same time, he told me in a PM just now that he either didn't know about the mark, or had forgotten about it, so I'm assuming I'd have gotten an answer saying it was fine.[/QUOTE]

Oh, and even though I didn't ask, I just have a hard time believing he didn't see it when packing it up, it stood out like a sore thumb the second I pulled it out of the bubble mailer, I just thought it was a glare off something at first which is why I then went and checked it out.

So he should have sent me a message at that point saying something about it, thus adding to the frustration I guess.

GatorBoyInTN 10-07-2012 02:11 AM

[QUOTE=zonacats8;3433919]It's funny that you say that because I was about to send you a PM starting it off with that sentence and then asking for your opinion because I felt you'd be the best person to give me advice as you clearly wouldn't be on my side from the start, hahaha, so thanks for jumping in here!

But to answer your questions, no I didn't ask on the condition, but at the same time, he told me in a PM just now that he either didn't know about the mark, or had forgotten about it, so I'm assuming I'd have gotten an answer saying it was fine.

I did see a scan of it, but it was a straight on shot, couldn't see the edge like that, never would have assumed it would have had that mark as I've seen countless of auto's run off the card without any sort of mark on the edge

Really the crux of the issue is the money, as if it had been a straight up trade it would be easy and no problem to just go back on it and send the cards back.

It's that I wanted the paypal out of the deal to pick up some PC cards that I would have passed on if I didn't have the money. So for me to have to then sell off cards I have now to go back on this deal, even if I pay it in the future, has me pretty upset and why this is such an issue for me.[/QUOTE]

Ah, we all have people on our we will never see eye to eye with, but at the end of the day we all have the same hobby.

I mean this does have you in a tough situation. His response that it was fine is a little sketchy IMO. How do you forget a huge blue mark on the side of the card? That's like forgetting that a corner is dinged. I would just continue to try and work with the member in question here and see where things go. I mean I wouldn't think to ask if there is a pen mark on a side of a card when I go to do a deal with someone, but would think that something such as this would be mentioned. Not saying the other member is a cheat or a scam by anymeans, but does seem odd to me.

zonacats8 10-07-2012 02:20 AM

[QUOTE=GatorBoyInTN;3433930]Ah, we all have people on our we will never see eye to eye with, but at the end of the day we all have the same hobby.

I mean this does have you in a tough situation. His response that it was fine is a little sketchy IMO. How do you forget a huge blue mark on the side of the card? That's like forgetting that a corner is dinged. I would just continue to try and work with the member in question here and see where things go. I mean I wouldn't think to ask if there is a pen mark on a side of a card when I go to do a deal with someone, but would think that something such as this would be mentioned. Not saying the other member is a cheat or a scam by anymeans, but does seem odd to me.[/QUOTE]

Exactly, not everyone gets along with everyone in this world, hahaha, and speaking of the hobby, I've got a Kendall I'm gonna send you

Yea, I'm not saying he's a cheat or scam either, not at all, which is why I'm not saying his name in here because I don't want anyone else thinking that because I don't think he is. And to clarify, he never said it was "fine" I had said that I [B]assumed[/B] I would have got an answer like that because he had just said that he didn't remember that mark being on there or he had just never noticed it.

To his credit, he offered immediately to send mine back and for me to send his, which was great, I just don't think he thought about it from my end of it because of the paypal portion of it and what I wanted it at that time.

FreeMan12406 10-07-2012 02:35 AM

You messed up by spending the money before the deal was even complete. That's totally on you man.

zonacats8 10-07-2012 02:40 AM

So.......

Just took some herbal medicine and thinking much calmer and clearer, probably why my previous post was a little more relaxed and nicer, but here's what I'm thinking and wondering if you guys thought it was reasonable before bringing it to him

Here is what I had offered to him, I redacted the card in question to protect the identity of all involved, lol

[QUOTE]So I'm basically looking for $75 in trade value in return

The 6 completed listings for the XXXXXX in order of most recent on back is 51, 35, 47, 60, 64, 60 which makes me think that most of the XXXXXX collectors have theirs already and why the prices have gone down a bit. That's an average of $52 with the last 3 averaging 44, I say we split the difference between those two numbers at $48.

Then adding $27 paypal to bring it to $75 coming back to me that I'm looking for.

Let me know what you think[/QUOTE]

I thought this was a fair offer, but I'm not against budging a bit so from there we went down to $20 in paypal (I literally have .27 now which is why I can't give it back) and he added a $2-3 PC card as well.

So I'm thinking we go to the low end average of $44 from the $48 and add in the $7 and say $2 for the PC card which brings us to $13.

I think I should get a card worth about that from him, as I'd have asked for more had I known about this damage (I really wouldn't have asked for it, but I don't want to make him take this back and give me a non "damaged" card in return, don't think that's fully fair).

Or if he doesn't want to do that, to send me a $13 paypal gift payment to make up for the difference.

Thoughts?

zonacats8 10-07-2012 02:42 AM

[QUOTE=FreeMan12406;3433973]You messed up by spending the money before the deal was even complete. That's totally on you man.[/QUOTE]

I think that if either mine or his cards were damaged in shipping (not by our fault) and we needed to go back on the deal, then yes, but this was something that should have been disclosed either before the deal was agreed upon or even told about if seen when packing up to ship, thus avoiding the issue at hand.

FreeMan12406 10-07-2012 02:51 AM

[QUOTE=zonacats8;3433983]I think that if either mine or his cards were damaged in shipping (not by our fault) and we needed to go back on the deal, then yes, but this was something that should have been disclosed either before the deal was agreed upon or even told about if seen when packing up to ship, thus avoiding the issue at hand.[/QUOTE]

No, the deal isn't completed until both members leave feedback. Well members here are known to flake on leaving feedback but you get the gist. You have to take in to account anything happening. Never spend the money before the deal is done.

jimssouvenirs 10-07-2012 02:53 AM

If the guy really has "awesome feedback", then this issue should solve itself. In fact, it sounds like he already tried to solve it. Most of us inspect the hell out of our cards, but even I have about 200 auto / game - used on my desk right now and sometimes it's not easy to remember everything. It could easily have just been a mistake on his part. It's not his fault you already spent the Paypal, either. Once again, I understand the frustration but it sounds like something you guys can handle in private.

mmbtvs 10-07-2012 08:10 AM

I know my personal policy is, if someone is unhappy with their purchase/trade, then we go back to zero. Everything has to be returned. It sounds like he is trying to work with you. You should consider yourself lucky that you are dealing with someone is is flexible.

The Madbacker 10-07-2012 09:07 AM

Why is every problem you have...

A) a life or death matter?
B) have to be posted here?

Just handle your business instead of whining about it to all of us.

Is it me or are we seeing more and more of these types of threads?

hugh 10-07-2012 09:31 AM

do you know you can enter your banking info in paypal and pay directly from your checking account, or credit card?

I always hear people say "I don't have paypal", but you have money in the bank right? Or a credit card?

matfanofold 10-07-2012 09:38 AM

Aside from the unfortunate situation, I think that if someone is going to actively buy, sell, or trade then they should have the means to fix/refund said transactions if an issue arises. This to me is a sort of pet peeve, have the means available to rectify any and all issues before commiting to buying/selling/trading... This goes for both buyer, seller, or either end of a deal.

BigNate 10-07-2012 10:32 AM

That's why I never spend paypal that I get from someone until they have received cards and have left feedback.

zonacats8 10-07-2012 11:19 AM

[QUOTE=The Madbacker;3434170]Why is every problem you have...

A) a life or death matter?
B) have to be posted here?

Just handle your business instead of whining about it to all of us.

Is it me or are we seeing more and more of these types of threads?[/QUOTE]

Hey jackass, if you don't have something worthwhile to post, stay the #@#@#@#@ out of my threads

This is only the second advice thread I've posted and the other was when I first started, have had other issues pop up that were easily dealt with, was just looking for some thoughts on a new situation I had never thought would come up.

There is nothing wrong with these threads, there is no reason someone shouldn't be able to ask for some advice as to how something on here should be handled, if you don't like it, just don't read those threads.

This is why 95% of this board can't stand you

[QUOTE=hugh;3434195]do you know you can enter your banking info in paypal and pay directly from your checking account, or credit card?

I always hear people say "I don't have paypal", but you have money in the bank right? Or a credit card?[/QUOTE]

I have the money in my bank account, but that's not the issue here, I realize there is a risk in spending money from a sale/trade before the cards are wi th the new owner because something could get lost or damaged. I was willing to take the risk of everything arriving the way they should as I've yet to have a problem like that come up.

It's that this is completely different, everything arrived just fine but felt this is something that should have been disclosed earlier as we wouldn't have a problem if it was.

And the reason I don't want to transfer the money over from my bank is that I've been without a job for a couple months and haven't spent a dime of my savings (and won't) on cards until I get a new job. My cards budget is everything in my PayPal account and my collection, anything I can sell or trade.

marinocollector 10-07-2012 11:37 AM

I dont see a mark caused by the player signing as a flaw in the card.

FreeMan12406 10-07-2012 12:50 PM

You shouldnt of spent the money. /thread

superynaldo 10-07-2012 02:11 PM

[QUOTE=BigNate;3434336]That's why I never spend paypal that I get from someone until they have received cards and have left feedback.[/QUOTE]

Exactly... +1...

ajscards101 10-07-2012 02:43 PM

[QUOTE=FreeMan12406;3434911]You shouldnt of spent the money. /thread[/QUOTE]

Pretty much this........


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