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Old 07-18-2013, 03:45 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Sold a card for $5 dlvd on July 7, sent him my paypal and never heard anything. He wasn't on for a few days so I just set it aside for him. I have now sent 2 reminder pm's and they have just been ignored.

What would you guys do?

He has been on recently and is still buying or at least attempting to.
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Old 07-18-2013, 03:50 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'd neg though some would disagree. Don't say "I'll take it" if you have no intentions of taking it. If he was at least man enough to let you know he changed his mind then I would cut a little slack.
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Old 07-18-2013, 04:48 PM   #3 (permalink)
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If said member agreed and asked for your PayPal info., then I would say a negative is appropriate. I had to give out my first neg. today because of that. I had someone ask for my PayPal after I went to bed...got back on this morning to give it to him/her only to receive a message later on stating they bought something else instead. I guess a 7 and half hour wait for my PayPal was just too long.
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Old 07-18-2013, 04:52 PM   #4 (permalink)
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This is easy, neg him without regret.
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Old 07-18-2013, 04:54 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Negative.

As stated above if he at least replied to your PM to discuss (even if you could tell it was an excuse) I might cut them some slack.

But flat out ignoring you, if you're sure he has been active, bumps it to the negative.

It's becoming as common on here as on eBay to just back out of stuff.
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Old 07-18-2013, 05:16 PM   #6 (permalink)
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neg

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Old 07-18-2013, 05:19 PM   #7 (permalink)
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negatron for sure.
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Old 07-18-2013, 08:20 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Why not just name him?

That way the rest of us can choose not to deal with that headache. Probably the best form of justice.
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Why not just name him?

That way the rest of us can choose not to deal with that headache. Probably the best form of justice.
or both. preferably both.
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or both. preferably both.
Agreed. Let us know so we can block him and not have to worry about this type of stuff.
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Why not just name him?

That way the rest of us can choose not to deal with that headache. Probably the best form of justice.
Why not start a running thread where you post your bad deal,And SAID MEMBERS NAME Let the members decide to block or not Block...The MembersNeed to take back the forum that they make up!! If nobody deals with these Jackazzes they will move on and this section will be nonexistant.The members need to DEAL OUT the Justice around here...Give the Mods a well deserved rest..Its Getting to be where you only deal with people you know and trust anyway.
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Old 07-19-2013, 10:54 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Neg. I'm no expert around here, but for me material breach of contract is a neg.
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Old 07-19-2013, 11:56 AM   #13 (permalink)
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How about suspend anyone who backs out of a deal and dont allow them to B/S/T on here until they make good on the deal they backed out of. What do they call that?.................................................... Making people accountable for thier actions is what they call it.

Kinda harsh, I know. But I can almost guarantee it would cut down your non-payers on here by 90%.
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Old 07-19-2013, 12:04 PM   #14 (permalink)
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i use my ignore list only for people who don't respond to pms

but people should know so they can steer clear. a detailed description negative or neutral is warranted.
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Still posting/buying this morning, still no pm. Appropriate feedback will be left today.
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Still posting/buying this morning, still no pm. Appropriate feedback will be left today.
i actually know him in real life. he's been busy as hell. I know I said to neg him earlier before i knew who it was, but I can 100% vouch for him in this case. We've been running and working out together, but the last few weeks haven't been kind to him as far as free time. You may have gotten lost in the shuffle between his classes, work, and his move. i'll text him now for ya.
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i actually know him in real life. he's been busy as hell. I know I said to neg him earlier before i knew who it was, but I can 100% vouch for him in this case. We've been running and working out together, but the last few weeks haven't been kind to him as far as free time. You may have gotten lost in the shuffle between his classes, work, and his move. i'll text him now for ya.
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Hey man, didn't mean to cause a ruckus. I didn't get the chance to apply to your original message in time and by that point you had sent me a message saying you were going to move it elsewhere.

I am not on here to cause any problems or back out of sales by any means. If you still have the card, please re-send your PP info and I will get you a payment immediately.

Once again, sorry for the confusion.
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i actually know him in real life. he's been busy as hell. I know I said to neg him earlier before i knew who it was, but I can 100% vouch for him in this case. We've been running and working out together, but the last few weeks haven't been kind to him as far as free time. You may have gotten lost in the shuffle between his classes, work, and his move. i'll text him now for ya.
First comment is all "negative for sure who cares about personal life you handle your business" then second comment is all "oh wait that is my friend cut him some slack!"

Wow, I thought better of you than this Andy.
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I'll neg him myself.
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First comment is all "negative for sure who cares about personal life you handle your business" then second comment is all "oh wait that is my friend cut him some slack!"

Wow, I thought better of you than this Andy.
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Where is OJ spouting the "buddy-buddy" system he always speaks of.

This would be a perfect example.
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How about suspend anyone who backs out of a deal and dont allow them to B/S/T on here until they make good on the deal they backed out of. What do they call that?.................................................... Making people accountable for thier actions is what they call it.

Kinda harsh, I know. But I can almost guarantee it would cut down your non-payers on here by 90%.
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Where is OJ spouting the "buddy-buddy" system he always speaks of.

This would be a perfect example.
I'm not sure this is what he refers to when he says it (I could be wrong though) but it is kind of a reminder that things arent always as black and white as we try to make it sometimes. Myself included.

Fun self-incriminating story. A member PM'd me last friday about buying a card he had, I responded that I would buy it but was going out of town and needed as much $ as I could and would be back sunday. I got back Sunday and spent wayyyyy too much over the weekend so I decided I wasnt going to buy the card (at that time), but I paypal gifted(?) him some $ for the headache.

Now, under most circumstances, I could be in line for a neutral (potentially a neg), but he was cool about it and the $ I sent thankfully. One and only time itll happen.
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