Vent time

jbellis74 · 10-05-2011, 01:45 PM

Hey all. I have decided to leave my wife after being with her for 7 years and married for 4.

We have a 2 year old that I plan on taking care of without a question.

My father recently passed and I was left a nice chunk of change from his estate.

I told my soon to be ex that I would put a nice piece of it away into a trust so he can have it when he goes to college. Knowing fully well that she is not privy to any of this money, she has the balls to tell me she wants more of something that she is not entitled to.......

Okay, Rant over!

natbornkiller · 10-05-2011, 01:51 PM

but she is

XL5 · 10-05-2011, 01:56 PM

Talk to your lawyer.

frozenntimesports · 10-05-2011, 02:08 PM

For the love of God talk to your lawyer in New York and not your card geek friends. If you need a Long Island Matrimonial Lawyer I know a few.

jbellis74 · 10-05-2011, 02:53 PM

I already spoke to the attorney that is handling the estate and he told me it is my money and only my money.......No need to talk to another one lol

XL5 · 10-05-2011, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by jbellis74

I already spoke to the attorney that is handling the estate and he told me it is my money and only my money.......No need to talk to another one lol

He's not your attorney, right? Ask him if it will impact your upcoming divorce settlement. My guess is he'll give you the same advice KaMD and I did.

Or just ignore it and trust everything will work out fine. Always does in divorces.

Either way, best of luck!

Orangejello727 · 10-05-2011, 03:14 PM

Best of luck!

jbellis74 · 10-05-2011, 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by XL5

He's not your attorney, right? Ask him if it will impact your upcoming divorce settlement. My guess is he'll give you the same advice KaMD and I did.

Or just ignore it and trust everything will work out fine. Always does in divorces.

Either way, best of luck!

Technically he is my attorney because im paying for 1/3 of his services. 1/3 my fathers wife and 1/3 my brother. When I told him about my divorce and that I was opening an account for my son he immediately stopped me in my tracks and said I didnt have to do that and I said I wanted to.

gobullz1 · 10-05-2011, 03:20 PM

Tell her the only she is entitled to that she can get more of is your babymaker and she can slob on it

jbellis74 · 10-05-2011, 03:23 PM

Just found this also

When two people divorce, the issue sometimes arises whether one party may claim rights to another party's inheritance funds acquired during the marriage. Let's say, for example, your great aunt dies and leaves you the assets to her estate in her will with no mention of your spouse (although she knew you were married). This is considered an inheritance acquired during the marriage, and what you do with the assets upon receipt may influence whether you'll have to part with a portion of those assets upon divorce.

Generally, inheritances are not subject to equitable distribution because, by law, inheritances are not considered marital property. Instead, inheritances are treated as separate property belonging to the person who received the inheritance, and therefore may not be divided between the parties in a divorce.

ManInTheMirror · 10-05-2011, 03:26 PM

Jason, on an unrelated note, I can look at this a thousand times and it will always be funny:

Thanks man and good luck with everything.

jbellis74 · 10-05-2011, 03:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ManInTheMirror

Jason, on an unrelated note, I can look at this a thousand times and it will always be funny:

Thanks man and good luck with everything.

LMAO I was just gonna post it

10-05-2011, 01:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
jbellis74 Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Lake Worth Fla Hearts still in NYC Posts: 5,431 Bellis1974	Vent time Hey all. I have decided to leave my wife after being with her for 7 years and married for 4. We have a 2 year old that I plan on taking care of without a question. My father recently passed and I was left a nice chunk of change from his estate. I told my soon to be ex that I would put a nice piece of it away into a trust so he can have it when he goes to college. Knowing fully well that she is not privy to any of this money, she has the balls to tell me she wants more of something that she is not entitled to....... Okay, Rant over! __________________ *On any given Sunday you're gonna win or you're gonna lose. The point is - can you win or lose like a man?*

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frozenntimesports Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Emmaus, PA Posts: 8,805 frozenntimesports frozenntimesports	For the love of God talk to your lawyer in New York and not your card geek friends. If you need a Long Island Matrimonial Lawyer I know a few. __________________ Be Excellent to Each Other!

10-05-2011, 02:53 PM	#5 (permalink)
jbellis74 Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Lake Worth Fla Hearts still in NYC Posts: 5,431 Bellis1974	I already spoke to the attorney that is handling the estate and he told me it is my money and only my money.......No need to talk to another one lol __________________ *On any given Sunday you're gonna win or you're gonna lose. The point is - can you win or lose like a man?*

10-05-2011, 03:14 PM	#7 (permalink)
Orangejello727 Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 9,573	Best of luck!

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gobullz1 Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 116 gostevenjackson!	Tell her the only she is entitled to that she can get more of is your babymaker and she can slob on it __________________ http://s1196.photobucket.com/albums/aa412/gorockets12121/

10-05-2011, 03:23 PM	#10 (permalink)
jbellis74 Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Lake Worth Fla Hearts still in NYC Posts: 5,431 Bellis1974	Just found this also When two people divorce, the issue sometimes arises whether one party may claim rights to another party's inheritance funds acquired during the marriage. Let's say, for example, your great aunt dies and leaves you the assets to her estate in her will with no mention of your spouse (although she knew you were married). This is considered an inheritance acquired during the marriage, and what you do with the assets upon receipt may influence whether you'll have to part with a portion of those assets upon divorce. Generally, inheritances are not subject to equitable distribution because, by law, inheritances are not considered marital property. Instead, inheritances are treated as separate property belonging to the person who received the inheritance, and therefore may not be divided between the parties in a divorce. __________________ *On any given Sunday you're gonna win or you're gonna lose. The point is - can you win or lose like a man?*

10-05-2011, 03:26 PM	#11 (permalink)
ManInTheMirror Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 23,372	Jason, on an unrelated note, I can look at this a thousand times and it will always be funny: Thanks man and good luck with everything.

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