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mmbtvs 04-24-2012 09:10 AM

Dating your wife....
 
My wife has these friends who are married and to help keep their marriage fresh they go on dates a couple of times a month. So now she wants us to start doing this. And since she's been very selfish with her cooch lately I'm willing to give it a shot, but if she's not putting out, I'm gonna drop the idea like a bad habbit. Most recently her friends went to dinner and a play. (I'm not a big play guy)

So, first date will be next week probably. We're going to dinner at an Indian restaurant that we like, and then we're going to go to a hot tub place called East Heaven Hot Tubs.

Any of you do this kind of stuff? And if so, (assuming of course this works out for me) what other kind of dates do you guys suggest that I try?

Dacubs 04-24-2012 09:19 AM

Kinda have a give and take on date nights...they are hard for us to do since our kids are young (extra cost for babysitters and such), but we try to do at least once a month, sometimes twice, without the kids.

Never one for hot tubs and the like, but we usually do a sit down dinner somewhere, then whatever we can find to do...

things that have been done:
Movie
Just people watching down at the beach
Baseball games
Bowling
Mini-golf
Batting cages
shopping
comedy club

Mostly just re-doing things we used to do before kids while we were dating...

SethMurphy 04-24-2012 09:39 AM

we try to do one date night per month, our son is 16 months old and he has a sleepover at my mother-in-law's so we can have a night out, do whatever we want, and just relax and sleep in a bit

jusdukky 04-24-2012 09:42 AM

Dinner and a visit to your LCS:D:devil:

TrueNE_09 04-24-2012 09:44 AM

...thought for a moment there I was gonna get into an "internet fight" with mmbtvs.

Yeah, we do this. Has to be done with busy lives and days melting into weeks into months. Gotta go out and have fun and enjoy eachother.

Simple stuff works fine. Dinner, movies, drinks, walks. Anything really, as long as it is time together.

mmbtvs 04-24-2012 09:49 AM

[QUOTE=TrueNE_09;2575015]...[B]thought for a moment there I was gonna get into an "internet fight" with mmbtvs. [/B]

Yeah, we do this. Has to be done with busy lives and days melting into weeks into months. Gotta go out and have fun and enjoy eachother.

Simple stuff works fine. Dinner, movies, drinks, walks. Anything really, as long as it is time together.[/QUOTE]

Would your wife date someone like me? And does she put out? :devil:

TrueNE_09 04-24-2012 09:52 AM

That depends. What size shoe do you wear again?

[QUOTE=mmbtvs;2575030]Would your wife date someone like me? And does she put out? :devil:[/QUOTE]

mmbtvs 04-24-2012 09:56 AM

[QUOTE=TrueNE_09;2575046]That depends. What size shoe do you wear again?[/QUOTE]

It's not the truth but I'm going to say a size 14.

fisk-factor75 04-24-2012 09:58 AM

does the date have to be with your own wife?

Apakalypto 04-24-2012 10:05 AM

[QUOTE=mmbtvs;2574928]My wife has these friends who are married and to help keep their marriage fresh they go on dates a couple of times a month. So now she wants us to start doing this. And since she's been very selfish with her cooch lately I'm willing to give it a shot, but if she's not putting out, I'm gonna drop the idea like a bad habbit. Most recently her friends went to dinner and a play. (I'm not a big play guy)

So, first date will be next week probably. We're going to dinner at an Indian restaurant that we like, and then we're going to go to a hot tub place called East Heaven Hot Tubs.

Any of you do this kind of stuff? And if so, (assuming of course this works out for me) what other kind of dates do you guys suggest that I try?[/QUOTE]

I have been married for 6 years and have a 4yr old son.
Sometimes arranging a date night is the only alone time me and the wifey get to spend together. So it all works out.

when we have date night, we try to do things that may be impossible to do when my son is around.

Casino/horse track
Strip club(To spice things up)
Dinner at a Restaurant where they offer no childrens menu
Movies
Hiking or anything outside.

And if your having a hard time getting the "Cooch" Try renting a nice Hotel room to take her to after a date....I don't know why but this seems to work all the time.

Just remember on the date to put her on a pedestal and make her feel like she is the only woman in the world. All women love being the center of attention.

Orangejello727 04-24-2012 10:09 AM

We have date night once a month. Usually consists of dinner and a movie, bowling or patio in the summer.

Ive also made the mistake of surprising her with a gift once a month like flowers, jewelry or something. Now when I dont get something, she barks at me about how I forgot. Dont make that mistake, once you start, you cant stop or else theyll call you out on it.

My wife always complains that on our date night, I make her pay. Then I have to remind her that puts our outings on her CC which I pay off for her monthly from our account.

Nodie27 04-24-2012 11:43 AM

I would check with trazelzoo and groupon type sites. Lately we've been doing things off of her bucket list like kayaking, shooting range, ice skating, fishing and will move up to trapeze,sky diving and ballroom dancing (Out of the 3 I'm most uncomfortable about the dancing)

natbornkiller 04-24-2012 11:59 AM

take her to dinner in Columbia and then get each other escorts for the rest of the night :)

Nicnac 04-24-2012 12:36 PM

[QUOTE=natbornkiller;2575522]take her to dinner in Columbia and then get each other escorts for the rest of the night :)[/QUOTE]

That only works when it's paid for by us tax paying putzes...

natbornkiller 04-24-2012 12:56 PM

[QUOTE=Nicnac;2575665]That only works when it's paid for by us tax paying putzes...[/QUOTE]

true, i am sure the op can figure out a way for us to pay for it, maybe he or his wife works for or know someone that works for the GSA

durstlimpbizkit 04-24-2012 12:57 PM

Women are irrational.

Men are happy with hobbies, silence, and video games/media/television.

Women require constant coddling, positive reinforcement, constant changes, holding you accountable for things you've never done, and then blame you for things they didn't tell you to not do (the dreaded "I don't care" response).

My girlfriend routinely pisses me off... however, I like having her around.

I think that's one of the most irrational things about men. It's when the horizontal polka gets boring that we run into the most problems.

WilsonValdez 04-24-2012 01:53 PM

[QUOTE=mmbtvs;2574928]My wife has these friends who are married and to help keep their marriage fresh they go on dates a couple of times a month. So now she wants us to start doing this. And since she's been very selfish with her cooch lately I'm willing to give it a shot, but if she's not putting out, I'm gonna drop the idea like a bad habbit. Most recently her friends went to dinner and a play. (I'm not a big play guy)

So, first date will be next week probably. [B]We're going to dinner at an Indian restaurant that we like, and then we're going to go to a hot tub place called East Heaven Hot Tubs.[/B]

Any of you do this kind of stuff? And if so, (assuming of course this works out for me) what other kind of dates do you guys suggest that I try?[/QUOTE]


Are you sure this is a wise idea? All I can picture is this:

[youtube]f2MRIwdGsM0[/youtube]

(except replace the red-head girl with you)

chipmaster 04-24-2012 02:09 PM

My wife and I try to go out once every 2 months. We have 2 little ones, so it's never easy finding someone willing to torture themselves for 4-5 hours while they watch them.

I will say this: DO NOT do it because everyone else does, do it because you really want to. We can barely afford to, that's why we do it every 2 months or so.

I have no problem hittin the skins, so dinner is of no consequence.

nemo23 04-24-2012 02:10 PM

[QUOTE=TrueNE_09;2575046]That depends. What size shoe do you wear again?[/QUOTE]

4 1/2 lol

Nodie27 04-24-2012 02:11 PM

[QUOTE=durstlimpbizkit;2575746]Women are irrational.

Men are happy with hobbies, silence, and video games/media/television.

Women require constant coddling, positive reinforcement, constant changes, holding you accountable for things you've never done, and then blame you for things they didn't tell you to not do (the dreaded "I don't care" response).

My girlfriend routinely pisses me off... however, I like having her around.

I think that's one of the most irrational things about men. It's when the horizontal polka gets boring that we run into the most problems.[/QUOTE]

This was a pretty random rant. Did something just happen? Yeah women and men are different but you have to learn to deal with it because even the women that seem different and not as needy, still are just to a lesser degree. The other alternative is to just stick with the escorts but then that just gets expensive :p

nemo23 04-24-2012 02:21 PM

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ok, this is what you need to do without her knowing is to get a hotel room early that day before you go out and fix it up romantically like silk rose peddles on the floor leading to the bed with candles burning and have a cd player going with the cd you made with all the love songs playing and have a tray of (chocolate dipped strawberries) and cheese and crackers and some more fruit and have her a bubble bath ready and sit on the side of the tub feeding these to her....... trust me it works!!!! ive done this....

fm8418 04-24-2012 02:22 PM

We go do stuff all the time. Grandma/Grandpas x3 all would want to watch our 22 month old all day. Sometimes we will do something special like [url]http://www.belameresuites.com/[/url] were you get a jacuzzi and pool inside your room

Zerokruel 04-24-2012 02:28 PM

We do date night probably twice a month. One of our parents watch our daughter, so we normally don't have that issue - it also helps that her parents are in walking distance.

We're pretty random at what we do and we normally try to mix it up. Last Saturday we went to a local buffalo wing place and then hit a bar to watch the UFC fights. That was her first time watching the fights, so it was pretty funny.

joserobles 04-24-2012 03:40 PM

been married almost 11 years (June). keep her happy!!!
I wasn't into plays, but we've done a few and if [B]YOU[/B] pick one it will go along way and you might actually enjoy it.

someone suggested "other things" walking, bike riding, shooting range. Not the usual date, but the time together is what counts.

alexcampos 04-24-2012 03:44 PM

LOL....married people :D


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