What would you do if you were me..... ? (Girl problems)

[Nodie27]

This all depends on how you feel about her. If think there is a future with her and she could be "the one" then give it a shot but take it slow. If you just want to hit it one more time then put everything in perspective.
What do you have to lose? Drama isn't worth it. You can't begin to understand how her relationship is going to be with the baby daddy until he gets out. Remember that's his child too so he is going to be in the childs life, her life and your life whether you like it or not.
What do you have to gain? Realistically lets say she is the best you've ever had. You're going to risk all the above for a couple of moments of ecstasy? And you're 19, there are still so many girls out there for you. Don't revisit the past. Wise man once said "Nothing beats strange wool"

[lakernation10]

Originally Posted by Bonaflyd

how exactly am i hating on a 19 year old asian kid that is messing with a mexican chick taking care of another mans seed??? LOL....grow up....for real....

Ur posts are hilarious.

Asian kid messing with a mexican chick? U must be scared of latinas or something.

Quit hating cus u cant get girls.

[lakernation10]

Originally Posted by Nodie27

This all depends on how you feel about her. If think there is a future with her and she could be "the one" then give it a shot but take it slow. If you just want to hit it one more time then put everything in perspective.
What do you have to lose? Drama isn't worth it. You can't begin to understand how her relationship is going to be with the baby daddy until he gets out. Remember that's his child too so he is going to be in the childs life, her life and your life whether you like it or not.
What do you have to gain? Realistically lets say she is the best you've ever had. You're going to risk all the above for a couple of moments of ecstasy? And you're 19, there are still so many girls out there for you. Don't revisit the past. Wise man once said "Nothing beats strange wool"

Thanks for this my dude. I guess taking it slow would probly be best. Dont understand the wise man saying but thanks for that too. Lol

[GatorBoyInTN]

Originally Posted by lakernation10

Ur posts are hilarious.

Asian kid messing with a mexican chick? U must be scared of latinas or something.

Quit hating cus u cant get girls.

You should probably just be her friend and see where things go. Please do not attempt to teach this kid the English language.

[Bjsportscards77]

what you need to do is post pictures of her if shes as hot as you say.... Rule of thumb here on the boards... Pics or it didnt happen

[Nodie27]

Quick question: Did she try and give you anything for Father's Day? A card? A thank you? A compliment?

Only reason I ask is that some girls (Not saying your girl because I don't know her) are just trying to find a father figure. Just be careful. The girl you know and trust might be trying to play you. Good luck!


Oh and the Strange Wool comment is a reference to an old movie. Had to sneak it in.

[lakernation10]

Originally Posted by GatorBoyInTN

You should probably just be her friend and see where things go. Please do not attempt to teach this kid the English language.

Ive been doing this for 6 months lol. Haha i know man, that guy is a lame

Originally Posted by Bjsportscards77

what you need to do is post pictures of her if shes as hot as you say.... Rule of thumb here on the boards... Pics or it didnt happen

Haha what the heck?! ill maybeeeee post one later but thats kinda wierd. Lol.

Post your spouse

Originally Posted by Nodie27

Quick question: Did she try and give you anything for Father's Day? A card? A thank you? A compliment?

Only reason I ask is that some girls (Not saying your girl because I don't know her) are just trying to find a father figure. Just be careful. The girl you know and trust might be trying to play you. Good luck!


Oh and the Strange Wool comment is a reference to an old movie. Had to sneak it in.

No fathers day gift for me. She spent fathers day with her dad. I definately wasnt expecting one.

[SportsItUpCards]

Originally Posted by Bjsportscards77

what you need to do is post pictures of her if shes as hot as you say.... Rule of thumb here on the boards... Pics or it didnt happen

Yeah, guys on here have posted half nude pics of their future wifes...... smh

[Nodie27]

Originally Posted by lakernation10

Ive been doing this for 6 months lol. Haha i know man, that guy is a lame



Haha what the heck?! ill maybeeeee post one later but thats kinda wierd. Lol.

Post your spouse



No fathers day gift for me. She spent fathers day with her dad. I definately wasnt expecting one.

Just checking. I had a friend who got suckered in by that one. Now he's with the girl who he can't stand any longer taking care of her and the other guys kid along with his kid.

[imbaked247]

Op you should just be a friend and wait and see what she does once her votos outta of the slammer.You might just be a ride until the daddy gets set free.Sorry but thats how some girls are, and she might not want to be leading you on but young girls usually will give baby daddys more then one chance at making it right. I say have fun dont lie to her and dont fall in love with her right away bro.Being you are 19 believe me wants/needs and where you wanna go in life change as you get older. WRAP IT TWICE =)

[SportsItUpCards]

Originally Posted by imbaked247

Op you should just be a friend and wait and see what she does once her votos outta of the slammer.You might just be a ride until the daddy gets set free.Sorry but thats how some girls are, and she might not want to be leading you on but young girls usually will give baby daddys more then one chance at making it right. I say have fun dont lie to her and dont fall in love with her right away bro.Being you are 19 believe me wants/needs and where you wanna go in life change as you get older. WRAP IT TWICE =)

You're watching too much "16 and pregnant" HAHAHA

[lakernation10]

Originally Posted by imbaked247

Op you should just be a friend and wait and see what she does once her votos outta of the slammer.You might just be a ride until the daddy gets set free.Sorry but thats how some girls are, and she might not want to be leading you on but young girls usually will give baby daddys more then one chance at making it right. I say have fun dont lie to her and dont fall in love with her right away bro.Being you are 19 believe me wants/needs and where you wanna go in life change as you get older. WRAP IT TWICE =)

Thats good info bruh , especially since ur baked 24/7 lol

But im sure shes not going back to him after he physically abused her. Idk tho, u could be right too..

[GatorBoyInTN]

Originally Posted by lakernation10

Thats good info bruh , especially since ur baked 24/7 lol

But im sure shes not going back to him after he physically abused her. Idk tho, u could be right too..

Yeah bruh. That shawty be lame to go back to the foo. Shawty be like Na I ain't trying to be with that doo, he hit me and ish. You take care of her bruh and bes like yous always be my booboo bear shawty.

[imbaked247]

Originally Posted by SportsItUpCards

You're watching too much "16 and pregnant" HAHAHA

I only watch the episodes I star in

[lakernation10]

Originally Posted by GatorBoyInTN

Yeah bruh. That shawty be lame to go back to the foo. Shawty be like Na I ain't trying to be with that doo, he hit me and ish. You take care of her bruh and bes like yous always be my booboo bear shawty.

Haha ur awesome man!

[GatorBoyInTN]

Originally Posted by lakernation10

Haha ur awesome man!

Sorry i couldn't resist. No offense taken i hope.

[hhmag70]

Originally Posted by lakernation10

But im sure shes not going back to him after he physically abused her. Idk tho, u could be right too..

Sounds like it should be that easy, but most chicks that get abused keep going back for more.

[GatorBoyInTN]

Originally Posted by hhmag70

Sounds like it should be that easy, but most chicks that get abused keep going back for more.

It's because the abuser loves them, they just can't show it properly

[newton615]

Dont be a sucker, shell use you for a year then take back her baby daddy thinking hes a changed man

[mmbtvs]

I'd like to hope that you had more respect for women than to consider banging her and then dumping her. Have you considered her feelings in all of this and what she is looking for?

[TheHeel]

Originally Posted by tajikey

Oh, the ignorance of youth!

Personally, I'd stay away. You're 19, and you don't need to take on the responsibility of raising a child when you're still one yourself. Hitting it and quitting it is also not the answer, as you're only going to draw yourself closer to her and her child, and that will make it even harder for you to get away when you want to, and believe me, you'll want to.

I respect that you're helping her and her child out, but you're way too young to flush your life down the toilet taking on a responsibility you can honestly and respectfully avoid. I wouldn't say run, but walk quickly away from the situation.

[37Jetson]

Take the high road regarding this "opportunity" and stay far away from her by making zero contact. There are thousands of other women to be had. This one is just trouble waiting to happen.

[Nicnac]

Originally Posted by mmbtvs

I'd like to hope that you had more respect for women than to consider banging her and then dumping her. Have you considered her feelings in all of this and what she is looking for?

Respect... on this forum?

[SportsItUpCards]

Originally Posted by 37Jetson

Take the high road regarding this "opportunity" and stay far away from her by making zero contact. There are thousands of other women to be had. This one is just trouble waiting to happen.

This could be very true. If I were the babies' father I would definitely come back and want my woman back too! Definitely trouble waiting to happen, and we can possibly catch you in a future movie on Lifetime Movie Network....

[hairysasquatch]

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