What would you do if you were me..... ? (Girl problems) - Page 4

Gibberish · 06-19-2012, 01:51 PM

I have no idea what that means

GatorBoyInTN · 06-19-2012, 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gibberish

I have no idea what that means

Me neither. Maybe Lakers can translate.

Gibberish · 06-19-2012, 01:59 PM

SIMON SAYS

GatorBoyInTN · 06-19-2012, 02:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gibberish

SIMON SAYS

Gibberish · 06-19-2012, 02:10 PM

WilsonValdez · 06-19-2012, 02:16 PM

Not worth it OP...don't get hypnotized by the pussy:

chipmaster · 06-20-2012, 09:24 AM

Fo realz playa

I think this may be the OP's first POA, and he's in luv....

DanShakespeare · 06-20-2012, 09:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gibberish

........

Ajax1723 · 06-20-2012, 10:54 AM

Kinda late to the discussion. but I've been in this situation twice.

My second GF was 17 when she had her first kid, and we did ok until she cheated on me, so kinda biased there.

My Third GF was 20 when she had her first, but she was a nice girl, I helped as much as I could, we still hung out, obviously though, it makes that 10 times harder to go out at night, etc. because the baby has to be taken care of. So if that is important to you, you have to consider that.

I see nothing wrong with dating her. She's sounds like a good person who got with a bad dude, and is genuinely interested in you. Take a shot, you don't want to be looking back in 5 years saying "man I could have been with her".

Boo · 06-20-2012, 10:59 AM

[QUOTE=Ajax1723;2851723]Kinda late to the discussion. but I've been in this situation twice.

My second GF was 17 when she had her first kid, and we did ok until she cheated on me, so kinda biased there.

My Third GF was 20 when she had her first, but she was a nice girl, I helped as much as I could, we still hung out, obviously though, it makes that 10 times harder to go out at night, etc. because the baby has to be taken care of. So if that is important to you, you have to consider that.

I see nothing wrong with dating her. She's sounds like a good person who got with a bad dude, and is genuinely interested in you. Take a shot, you don't want to be looking back in 5 years saying "man I could have been with her".[/QUOTE]

When she has 4 more kids to three other guys?

japes3 · 06-20-2012, 11:04 AM

RUN! Plenty of fish in the sea.

Ajax1723 · 06-20-2012, 11:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boo

When she has 4 more kids to three other guys?

That's assuming a lot, but was just giving my experiences and opinion.

Rick · 06-20-2012, 11:35 AM

In before she takes you to court for child support because you've been the one taking care of her & the baby.

Google & find out how many guys are on the hook for child support for kids they supported, but aren't theirs. If you're a "father figure" IE - in the childs life, taking the child where they need to go, spending time, etc. You're on the hook.

RUN

chipmaster · 06-20-2012, 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rick

In before she takes you to court for child support because you've been the one taking care of her & the baby.

Google & find out how many guys are on the hook for child support for kids they supported, but aren't theirs. If you're a "father figure" IE - in the childs life, taking the child where they need to go, spending time, etc. You're on the hook.

Hurry! Put your peter in the pooper as Ronlabo suggested, and
RUN

You're kidding me right? Any way the state can, they WILL screw dudes over, including, but not limited to, their own blood as well as non-blood......WTF! Talk about a effed up society we live in

Cubs_rock21 · 06-20-2012, 11:51 AM

Man I would feel her out, does she actually like you or is she just looking for comfort until the babies daddy gets out of jail..Because it would suck if you waste your time and than the babies daddy comes out of jail and wants her back and she goes with him.

I wouldn't mess around with her unless you really like her, but again you could just be a stepping stone until her ex gets out of jail.

chipmaster · 06-20-2012, 11:57 AM

This thread is worthless without pics.......

Let's see this mamacita!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bjsportscards77 · 06-20-2012, 12:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chipmaster

This thread is worthless without pics.......

Let's see this mamacita!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thats what i said on page one... Pics or she doesnt exsist!

chipmaster · 06-20-2012, 01:15 PM

I have a feeling this chicks name is Rosey Palmer

BostonNut · 06-20-2012, 01:32 PM

I heard her name was Schtickey Phalanges...

Quote:

Originally Posted by chipmaster

I have a feeling this chicks name is Rosey Palmer

Rick · 06-20-2012, 01:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chipmaster

You're kidding me right? Any way the state can, they WILL screw dudes over, including, but not limited to, their own blood as well as non-blood......WTF! Talk about a effed up society we live in

Yeah man, it's true. If you are playing the role of the father & then you stop, you can be on the hook for child support. Sad but true.

Something I've never understood, in a country that is run by men, how in the world are there so many damn laws that screw men over?

I purpose that every baby born in the USA has a DNA test to confirm the father is the father. It'll never happen because there will be too many bastard kids running around if so.

chipmaster · 06-29-2012, 10:31 AM

Any Update?

Did you take her to church and have her confess her sins? Did you guys go on a church retreat after that, and hold hands on the hay ride? Did you guys take the kid for a visit to the clink so he could see his pops?

We all wanna know

Mattsurewood · 06-29-2012, 08:40 PM

Was just listening to Track 3 when I read this thread...I think we all know what happened...

GatorBoyInTN · 07-01-2012, 06:33 AM

"Sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers and move on. You don't have to forget who that person was to you; only accept that they aren't that person any more."

imbaked247 · 07-01-2012, 01:18 PM

So did the op or did the girl he is chilling with get stabbed?

lakernation10 · 07-02-2012, 11:43 PM

Lol thought this thread died. Please refrain from the negative comments if you want to say something.

But jeeze lol heres an update for you guys:

Chipmaster: idk how u knew but honest to god i just came back from a church retreat a week or two ago (not with her tho).

Idk what u guys wanna hear but here is a detailed night on sat..

On saturday we went to go see Ted the movie. We watched like 40minutes of it and she wasnt feeling it so she walked out. She said she had a headache. But i think it was cuz i was ignoring her. The little i got to watch was freakin hilarious. Definately need to finish the movie on my own time. i didnt get a refund on the tix,but luckily i got a gift certificate to the movies as a replacement. We had a semi-large arguement about the relationship getting nowhere and she wants more than a friendship which is where were at now. (a few of you called that one

) after leaving the movies we went to chick-fila, once again she wanted to be stubborn and didnt want to eat. I asked her what she wants and she says she wants me to do her in the backseat. (we are in the target parking lot, parked, im eating my chick-fil-a). I didnt have a condom so i told her no. At this point she was just watching me eat my sandwich. She got upset and said she was going to walk home, she was joking about walking home because we were maybe 8miles from her house. I didnt want to make out after because i just ate my chicken sandwich. We then went to a hookah bar after for a couple hours. we did end up making out a lot in there tho since the dam bar had booths that were so private (not like most other hookah bars)

We dont hang out everyday but Im taking her to downtown disney tomorrow to see the firework show. And friday we are going to a youth group at my church.

As for hitting it and quitting it. I realized thats not right but we do have the occasional make out sesh and groping. Lol. But dont call me a tool if my wang cant control itself and i do end up boning a 'single mother'

06-19-2012, 01:51 PM	#76 (permalink)
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06-19-2012, 01:59 PM	#78 (permalink)
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06-19-2012, 02:10 PM	#80 (permalink)
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06-19-2012, 02:16 PM	#81 (permalink)
WilsonValdez Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Temporarily Suspended Posts: 8,332 wilsonvaldez	Not worth it OP...don't get hypnotized by the pussy: __________________ I NO longer deal in TRUTH.

06-20-2012, 09:24 AM	#82 (permalink)
chipmaster Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,921 dirkdiggler	Fo realz playa I think this may be the OP's first POA, and he's in luv.... __________________ I collect Ryan Leaf Rookies

06-20-2012, 10:54 AM	#84 (permalink)
Ajax1723 Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Hatfield, PA Posts: 8,089 Raiders_of_the_lost_arkanoid Ajax1723	Kinda late to the discussion. but I've been in this situation twice. My second GF was 17 when she had her first kid, and we did ok until she cheated on me, so kinda biased there. My Third GF was 20 when she had her first, but she was a nice girl, I helped as much as I could, we still hung out, obviously though, it makes that 10 times harder to go out at night, etc. because the baby has to be taken care of. So if that is important to you, you have to consider that. I see nothing wrong with dating her. She's sounds like a good person who got with a bad dude, and is genuinely interested in you. Take a shot, you don't want to be looking back in 5 years saying "man I could have been with her". __________________ Evan Longoria Supercollector! 684 cards and counting! My Bucket: http://s1170.photobucket.com/albums/r536/Ajax1723/

06-20-2012, 10:59 AM	#85 (permalink)
Boo Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: PA Posts: 2,579 kaboo22 klay22	[QUOTE=Ajax1723;2851723]Kinda late to the discussion. but I've been in this situation twice. My second GF was 17 when she had her first kid, and we did ok until she cheated on me, so kinda biased there. My Third GF was 20 when she had her first, but she was a nice girl, I helped as much as I could, we still hung out, obviously though, it makes that 10 times harder to go out at night, etc. because the baby has to be taken care of. So if that is important to you, you have to consider that. I see nothing wrong with dating her. She's sounds like a good person who got with a bad dude, and is genuinely interested in you. Take a shot, you don't want to be looking back in 5 years saying "man I could have been with her".[/QUOTE] When she has 4 more kids to three other guys? __________________ CheckOutMyCards ID = klay22 http://s1058.photobucket.com/albums/t403/klay22/

06-20-2012, 11:04 AM	#86 (permalink)
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06-20-2012, 11:35 AM	#88 (permalink)
Rick Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: South Florida Posts: 1,315	In before she takes you to court for child support because you've been the one taking care of her & the baby. Google & find out how many guys are on the hook for child support for kids they supported, but aren't theirs. If you're a "father figure" IE - in the childs life, taking the child where they need to go, spending time, etc. You're on the hook. RUN __________________ Collect Florida Marlins GU & Autos (Old & Current) - PM Me if you are moving any. Buying ALL iPhones, iPods, Blackberrys, Androids, ALL Electronics etc. Check my thread. http://www.blowoutcards.com/forums/non-sports-singles-buy-sell-trade/99541-buying-all-iphones-blackberrys-androids-psps-etc-etc.html

06-20-2012, 11:51 AM	#90 (permalink)
Cubs_rock21 Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Indiana Posts: 5,672	Man I would feel her out, does she actually like you or is she just looking for comfort until the babies daddy gets out of jail..Because it would suck if you waste your time and than the babies daddy comes out of jail and wants her back and she goes with him. I wouldn't mess around with her unless you really like her, but again you could just be a stepping stone until her ex gets out of jail.

06-20-2012, 11:57 AM	#91 (permalink)
chipmaster Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,921 dirkdiggler	This thread is worthless without pics....... Let's see this mamacita!!!!!!!!!!!!!! __________________ I collect Ryan Leaf Rookies

06-20-2012, 01:15 PM	#93 (permalink)
chipmaster Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,921 dirkdiggler	I have a feeling this chicks name is Rosey Palmer __________________ I collect Ryan Leaf Rookies

06-29-2012, 10:31 AM	#96 (permalink)
chipmaster Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,921 dirkdiggler	Any Update? Did you take her to church and have her confess her sins? Did you guys go on a church retreat after that, and hold hands on the hay ride? Did you guys take the kid for a visit to the clink so he could see his pops? We all wanna know __________________ I collect Ryan Leaf Rookies

06-29-2012, 08:40 PM	#97 (permalink)
Mattsurewood Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Crofton, MD Posts: 801 greenbeltsux	Was just listening to Track 3 when I read this thread...I think we all know what happened...

07-01-2012, 06:33 AM	#98 (permalink)
GatorBoyInTN Banned Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Johnson City, TN Posts: 6,162	"Sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers and move on. You don't have to forget who that person was to you; only accept that they aren't that person any more."

07-01-2012, 01:18 PM	#99 (permalink)
imbaked247 Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,882	So did the op or did the girl he is chilling with get stabbed?

07-02-2012, 11:43 PM	#100 (permalink)
lakernation10 Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: CALi Posts: 2,579	Lol thought this thread died. Please refrain from the negative comments if you want to say something. But jeeze lol heres an update for you guys: Chipmaster: idk how u knew but honest to god i just came back from a church retreat a week or two ago (not with her tho). Idk what u guys wanna hear but here is a detailed night on sat.. On saturday we went to go see Ted the movie. We watched like 40minutes of it and she wasnt feeling it so she walked out. She said she had a headache. But i think it was cuz i was ignoring her. The little i got to watch was freakin hilarious. Definately need to finish the movie on my own time. i didnt get a refund on the tix,but luckily i got a gift certificate to the movies as a replacement. We had a semi-large arguement about the relationship getting nowhere and she wants more than a friendship which is where were at now. (a few of you called that one ) after leaving the movies we went to chick-fila, once again she wanted to be stubborn and didnt want to eat. I asked her what she wants and she says she wants me to do her in the backseat. (we are in the target parking lot, parked, im eating my chick-fil-a). I didnt have a condom so i told her no. At this point she was just watching me eat my sandwich. She got upset and said she was going to walk home, she was joking about walking home because we were maybe 8miles from her house. I didnt want to make out after because i just ate my chicken sandwich. We then went to a hookah bar after for a couple hours. we did end up making out a lot in there tho since the dam bar had booths that were so private (not like most other hookah bars) We dont hang out everyday but Im taking her to downtown disney tomorrow to see the firework show. And friday we are going to a youth group at my church. As for hitting it and quitting it. I realized thats not right but we do have the occasional make out sesh and groping. Lol. But dont call me a tool if my wang cant control itself and i do end up boning a 'single mother' __________________ *Collecting the UCLA PG's Jordan Farmar And Darren Collison* Last edited by lakernation10; 07-02-2012 at 11:46 PM.

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