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Old 06-18-2012, 06:37 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Question What would you do if you were me..... ? (Girl problems)

Well i kinda want to vent and i want some input..

I was always into the latina girls with the nice a$$ and preferably shorter. It doesnt matter but Im asian btw. Lol

Well.. Im 19 right now and im in a little dillema. i dated this mex. girl in 10th grade for a good 5months (we were good friends for the previous 3 years.) Shes a year older than me btw. Our relationship when we dated wasnt really the lovey dovey shizz. All we really did was hook up and stuff. Lol. we got suspended for doing some stuff in the church sanctuary (christian school). (Not proud of that) And then We broke up after this incident.

The next school year she transferred schools and we didnt really talk for a good 2-3 years.

Well she just made a facebook and hit me up recently. And damm dat ass is still bangin. I asked her the usual, "how u been," "whats new" all that stuff and she tells me shes pregnant. her baby daddy abused her and now her ex has been in jail for idk how long and ive been taking care of her since. Well she had her baby last month and ive still been taking care of her, taking her places and stuff. The baby too. I like how everywhere i go everyone looks at me, lol. She asked me recently if i would date her again.

What would u do? Would u date a girl with a baby at age 19? Should i hit and quit?
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Old 06-18-2012, 06:40 PM   #2 (permalink)
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#1 Is she a good person?
#2 Are you a good person?
#3 Is she asking to fool around or does she want something stable for her child?

If the former, re-answer #2.
If the latter, can you afford to give the child a stable, safe, healthy upbringing?
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Oh and also Her ex, the baby daddy, comes out in less than a year. I aint scared but from what i hear he professionaly teaches martial arts and is 23.
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Oh, the ignorance of youth!

Personally, I'd stay away. You're 19, and you don't need to take on the responsibility of raising a child when you're still one yourself. Hitting it and quitting it is also not the answer, as you're only going to draw yourself closer to her and her child, and that will make it even harder for you to get away when you want to, and believe me, you'll want to.

I respect that you're helping her and her child out, but you're way too young to flush your life down the toilet taking on a responsibility you can honestly and respectfully avoid. I wouldn't say run, but walk quickly away from the situation.
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And you'd just be doin yet duty
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#1 Is she a good person?
#2 Are you a good person?
#3 Can you afford to give the child a stable, safe, healthy upbringing?
1. Definately

2. I hope so. Lol

3. Her parents are rich
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hit it.
quit it.
then give everyone an internet high five.
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Old 06-18-2012, 06:43 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Hit it! Strap 4 times. She is apparently fertile, and it's much easier the second time around so I hear.
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Be a friend too her and that's it dude. You're 19 and don't need that kind of drama if it isn't yours, yah know?
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Be a friend too her and that's it dude. You're 19 and don't need that kind of drama if it isn't yours, yah know?
I gotchaa.. She gets made and always says "you dont like me anymore" when i tell her i wanna be just friends
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What do i do if she presses the unlock button ?
Then you dump her anyway because that's a sign that she's lazy, and most likely will be 500 pounds in the near future, eating pizza and chips on the couch 24/7!
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Be a friend, but don't get locked in as a daddy at 19 with a kid that isn't yours.

I knew a lot of girls at your age who had kids, they are ALWAYS looking to lock up any kind of decent man asap. They move quick and fast when the kids are young to get that father figure.
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What would u do?
If I were you I would hide my face in shame and never go onto a computer again.

How do you children function day to day?
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Hit her in the pooper and kick her to the curb
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Smash and dash buddy. I wouldn't( and didn't lol) get tied down to any one female at your age. However on a scale from 1-10 exactly how bangin is she? Pic? Haha just playing bud, good luck to ya.
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if I were you I would not play with the lives of a young child and vulnerable mother and be a real man......kids like you need a reality check hopefully her BF comes out of jail and whoops your pathetic wanna be " adult" ass
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if I were you I would not play with the lives of a young child and vulnerable mother and be a real man......kids like you need a reality check hopefully her BF comes out of jail and whoops your pathetic wanna be " adult" ass
Hahahaha ur funny my dude.

Im the one thats been caring for her and her kid for over 6 months. Get ur lame ass out of here wit that ish. Vulnerable mother? Ive never even tried to make a move on her. gtfo hater.
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I've been with my wife since we were both 17...... so not sure what all the "tied down" comments are about. I don't see it as tied down, I see it as getting it right early on, while some waste most of their adult lives trying to find their misses in a bar..... or worse! HAHAHA
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I agree with the be a friend crowd, and NOT the "hit it and quit it" crowd. I'm sure some guys are just trying to be funny, but the girl is already in a bad situation...at best hitting and quitting gets you more deeply entangled in the situation, at worst she's got more kids on the way and you don't want that at 19 lol.
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Hahahaha ur funny my dude.

Im the one thats been caring for her and her kid for over 6 months. Get ur lame ass out of here wit that ish. Vulnerable mother? Ive never even tried to make a move on her. gtfo hater.
how exactly am i hating on a 19 year old asian kid that is messing with a mexican chick taking care of another mans seed??? LOL....grow up....for real....
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Oh, the ignorance of youth!

Personally, I'd stay away. You're 19, and you don't need to take on the responsibility of raising a child when you're still one yourself. Hitting it and quitting it is also not the answer, as you're only going to draw yourself closer to her and her child, and that will make it even harder for you to get away when you want to, and believe me, you'll want to.

I respect that you're helping her and her child out, but you're way too young to flush your life down the toilet taking on a responsibility you can honestly and respectfully avoid. I wouldn't say run, but walk quickly away from the situation.
This ^^^^ Been there, done that. It's just not worth it in the end trust me, there are plenty more Latina's out there. If her parents are rich like you say then they can take care of her.

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